One of my girlfriends who happens to be Asian asked me to write a blurb on the black lesbian online dating experience.
After reading her article , I tend to agree with somethings. But other things not so culturally. Black america tends to put their business out on the street so to speak , as a result you experience situations you wouldn't find in other cultures. Oprah or Monique or Tina Turner telling the world their abusive pasts. As a result , you have many situations where you might ask , Ever thought of becoming a lesbian? It might work out better than with a guy , you seem to be carrying alot of baggage in that direction.
Black lesbians do have or have had situations like that but not only with the opposite sex but with the same sex as well. It's not easy have a long term relationship for anyone really. This tends to run across all racial lines when we are privy to personal business. Ellen Degeneres is fine now but what about when she was with Anne Heche. That relationship from the tidbits we saw had the potential to be a big disaster. It's time to no look back but look at the present. Like doing yoga , live your life in the here and now.Relaxed, Focused.Pay attention to the environment you're in and work to improve it. Many times experiences cross all color lines and you find the proponent of the experience is your own attitude for better or for worse. I don't like placing color barriers on situations for this very reason.
Yes the black lesbian online dating experience is unique full of wonder and joy but so is lesbian dating in general .
After reading her article , I tend to agree with somethings. But other things not so culturally. Black america tends to put their business out on the street so to speak , as a result you experience situations you wouldn't find in other cultures. Oprah or Monique or Tina Turner telling the world their abusive pasts. As a result , you have many situations where you might ask , Ever thought of becoming a lesbian? It might work out better than with a guy , you seem to be carrying alot of baggage in that direction.
Black lesbians do have or have had situations like that but not only with the opposite sex but with the same sex as well. It's not easy have a long term relationship for anyone really. This tends to run across all racial lines when we are privy to personal business. Ellen Degeneres is fine now but what about when she was with Anne Heche. That relationship from the tidbits we saw had the potential to be a big disaster. It's time to no look back but look at the present. Like doing yoga , live your life in the here and now.Relaxed, Focused.Pay attention to the environment you're in and work to improve it. Many times experiences cross all color lines and you find the proponent of the experience is your own attitude for better or for worse. I don't like placing color barriers on situations for this very reason.
Yes the black lesbian online dating experience is unique full of wonder and joy but so is lesbian dating in general .
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